父母别惊诧：儿子比女儿更敏感
http://www.100md.com
2001年1月17日
自生命形成时起，男性就比女性更脆弱，而我们的社会及文化却认为男孩应更加能屈能伸、更加强有力，这种传统观念强化了男性的弱点。儿童及青少年精神病学专家克莱蒙发表在《英国医学杂志》上的报告认为，如果家长理解男孩的先天脆弱性，就会改变他们养育儿子的方式。
早在胎儿期，男性胎儿就较易受到死亡及伤害的威胁。初生男婴的发育水平比初生女婴平均要迟4-6周。男孩通常比女孩有更多的生理和心理发育方面的问题。更需要父母的关怀。男孩好冒险，因而也需要父母更多的关注。在学校，女孩们在多数学科上都比男孩优秀，这一直持续到今后的生活中。循环系统紊乱、糖尿病、酒精中毒和肺癌都常发生在男人身上。男人的自杀率也比女人高。男人往往容易忽略疾病症状而导致延误治疗。几乎在所有的国家，女人的寿命都比男人要长数年，并且这种差距还在加大。
这份报告提示我们要注意对男孩的抚养方式。与发育有关的问题越多，就越需要更多、更细心的照顾。不幸的是，由于越顽皮的男孩越难照顾，他们受到的照顾就越少。如果父母那意识到男性的脆弱性，就应该改变他们对待儿子的方式。“男孩就要象个男孩”的传统态度需要进一步探索.
, 百拇医药
Boys May Be More Sensitive Than Girls
(British Medical Journal) - From the beginning of life, males are more vulnerable than females, and our social and cultural attitudes about the resilience of boys amplifies this inborn disadvantage. Reporting in this week‘s Christmas issue of the BMJ, Consultant Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Sebastian Kraemer, suggests that if parents were more aware of male sensitivity, they might change the way they treat their sons.
, http://www.100md.com
Before birth, the male fetus is at greater risk of death or damage, and by the time a boy is born he is on average 4-6 weeks less developed than his sister. Boys generally have more physical and psychological developmental problems and require more attention. They are more vulnerable to poor parental care, and tend to take greater risks. At school, girls are better than boys at most academic subjects, and later in life the process continues unabated. Circulatory disorders, diabetes, alcoholism and lung cancer are all commoner in men and male suicide rates continue to exceed those in females. Men are more able to ignore symptoms, which can delay medical treatment. Women even survive men by several years in almost all countries, and the gap is widening.
, 百拇医药
This report has implications for the upbringing of boys, says the author. The more developmental problems there are, the more sensitive care is required. Yet difficult babies often receive less good care, precisely because they are more difficult to look after. If parents were more aware of male sensitivity, they might change the way they treat their sons. The traditional attitude that "boys will be boys" needs exploring further, he concludes.
《家庭医生医疗保健网》, 百拇医药
早在胎儿期，男性胎儿就较易受到死亡及伤害的威胁。初生男婴的发育水平比初生女婴平均要迟4-6周。男孩通常比女孩有更多的生理和心理发育方面的问题。更需要父母的关怀。男孩好冒险，因而也需要父母更多的关注。在学校，女孩们在多数学科上都比男孩优秀，这一直持续到今后的生活中。循环系统紊乱、糖尿病、酒精中毒和肺癌都常发生在男人身上。男人的自杀率也比女人高。男人往往容易忽略疾病症状而导致延误治疗。几乎在所有的国家，女人的寿命都比男人要长数年，并且这种差距还在加大。
这份报告提示我们要注意对男孩的抚养方式。与发育有关的问题越多，就越需要更多、更细心的照顾。不幸的是，由于越顽皮的男孩越难照顾，他们受到的照顾就越少。如果父母那意识到男性的脆弱性，就应该改变他们对待儿子的方式。“男孩就要象个男孩”的传统态度需要进一步探索.
, 百拇医药
Boys May Be More Sensitive Than Girls
(British Medical Journal) - From the beginning of life, males are more vulnerable than females, and our social and cultural attitudes about the resilience of boys amplifies this inborn disadvantage. Reporting in this week‘s Christmas issue of the BMJ, Consultant Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Sebastian Kraemer, suggests that if parents were more aware of male sensitivity, they might change the way they treat their sons.
, http://www.100md.com
Before birth, the male fetus is at greater risk of death or damage, and by the time a boy is born he is on average 4-6 weeks less developed than his sister. Boys generally have more physical and psychological developmental problems and require more attention. They are more vulnerable to poor parental care, and tend to take greater risks. At school, girls are better than boys at most academic subjects, and later in life the process continues unabated. Circulatory disorders, diabetes, alcoholism and lung cancer are all commoner in men and male suicide rates continue to exceed those in females. Men are more able to ignore symptoms, which can delay medical treatment. Women even survive men by several years in almost all countries, and the gap is widening.
, 百拇医药
This report has implications for the upbringing of boys, says the author. The more developmental problems there are, the more sensitive care is required. Yet difficult babies often receive less good care, precisely because they are more difficult to look after. If parents were more aware of male sensitivity, they might change the way they treat their sons. The traditional attitude that "boys will be boys" needs exploring further, he concludes.
《家庭医生医疗保健网》, 百拇医药